Reflect on your values and energy

Values & Energy

Clarity on your values and energy is the foundation for leading from a grounded place. This worksheet helps you name what matters most and what sustains you—so you can make choices that align with both.

Time 1 hour, at your own pace
Format Seven short steps. You can move freely between them.

What You Actually Care About

Naming your values, first and foremost for yourself, changes what you'll let go of and what you'll fight for.

How to work through this
  1. Drag values to sort them. Drag to "very important," "somewhat important," or "not a priority."
  2. Start with your very important values. Once you've sorted them, look at what landed in "very important." These are your starting set.
  3. Get to your core three. From your very important values, ask: "Have I honored this even when it cost me something?" Narrow down to the three where the answer is yes. These are your core values.
  4. Name them in the three cards below.
Very important0
Somewhat important0
Not a priority0
Value 01
Value 02
Value 03

Fills & Drains

Consider the parts of work that energize you and what quietly depletes you. Think across the full space of your career to answer the following.

The Work Itself

Fills me up

Drains me

People & Relationships

Fills me up

Drains me

Environment & Conditions

Fills me up

Drains me

What The Map Tells You

Now read your fills and drains back to yourself. Some of these answers may already be obvious to you. Others will surprise you.

What I notice

Look back at everything you've listed. What patterns show up? What surprises you?

The honest admission

Something I'm good at that actually drains me, that I've never admitted out loud…

This one matters. We're often trapped by our own competence.

The unlived energy

Something that fills me up that I rarely or never get to do in my current or most recent role…

Putting It Together

Look at your values sort and your energy map side by side. Where do they confirm each other? Where do they pull in different directions?

A value from my core 5 that shows up clearly in my fills column is…

A value from my core 5 that I almost never see in my fills column is…

If my next chapter was designed entirely around my fills, and minimized my drains, it would look something like…

The single thing I want to remember from this is…